Dating Scale
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Criteria
Points
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Conversation Skills
NOT actively listen to you; Not keep conversation going; awkwardness; not polite or respectful in conversation; Doesn't express genuine curiosity; no interesting thoughts/ideas
a few conversation topics; relies mostly on the girl; grammar isn't terrible; doesn't open up and elaborate when he answers questions; conversation doesn't flow very well; feels like an interview
appropriate; many interesting topics; mostly shared conversation time; engaging throughout the date; good flow; remained interested and alert;
flow smoothly; asks questions; seems interested in answers; good listener; fun conversation; sense of humor
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Attire / appearance
doesn't look "put together"; isn't appropriate for event; isn't showered/clean; bad breath/BO; isn't trimmed/clean shaven; doesn't carry themselves well/good posture;
conscience effort into attire, but not polished; smells nice, but looks ready in a hurry; possibly needs to trim or shave facial hair;
nice shorts/pants; wearing a polo; no crocs, overalls, plaid or cargo; no baggy clothes; is showered/clean; matching;
clean and ironed clothing; matches and goes together; fresh breath/smells nice; clean shaven and combed hair;
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Manners/Chivalry
rude to you or others; make you pay; don't walk to door; doesn't open doors; too loud/obnoxious
please and/or thank you a few times; open door once; looked at phone a few times; interrupted a few times; split the check;
doesn't hold the door open, but comes to door; good eye contact; good listening; keeps phone away; makes you just leave tip;
comes to the door to pick you up; compliments the way you look; opens/holds all doors; pulls your chair out at dinner; pays for anything; chews with his mouth closed; knows not to try anything on first date; ask you out again; brings flowers;
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Fun Plans
didn't have anything planned; didn't make reservations; if plans were made, they were inappropriate or boring;
cheap budget; not aware of the weather; thoughtful and somewhat creative, but not too interesting; inappropriate for a first date; more fun for a guy than a girl;
makes an effort to select an activity you both enjoy doing; seems to enjoy activities you like doing;
plans took a lot of thought/creativity; unique location; something most people don't do on a date; considered "dream date"; you smile and laugh the whole time;
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Comfort Level
no eye contact; you can tell they're not themselves; awkward body language; awkward silences; not attentive to you;
means well, but still awkward; not trustworthy, yet; awkward good-bye; two weren't in line with thoughts;
keeps eye contact most of the time; only stumbles over words a little bit; minimal awkward silence; mild to little sweating; not forcing conversation;
avoided awkward silence; good sense of humor; good listener; not always on the phone; keeps eye contact, but not staring;
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