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Conversation Skills
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NOT actively listen
to you; Not keep conversation going; awkwardness; not
polite or respectful in conversation; Doesn't express
genuine curiosity; no interesting thoughts/ideas
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a few conversation
topics; relies mostly on the girl; grammar isn't terrible;
doesn't open up and elaborate when he answers questions;
conversation doesn't flow very well; feels like an interview
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appropriate; many interesting
topics; mostly shared conversation time; engaging throughout
the date; good flow; remained interested and alert;
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flow smoothly; asks
questions; seems interested in answers; good listener;
fun conversation; sense of humor
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Attire / appearance
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doesn't look "put together";
isn't appropriate for event; isn't showered/clean; bad
breath/BO; isn't trimmed/clean shaven; doesn't carry
themselves well/good posture;
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conscience effort into
attire, but not polished; smells nice, but looks ready
in a hurry; possibly needs to trim or shave facial hair;
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nice shorts/pants;
wearing a polo; no crocs, overalls, plaid or cargo;
no baggy clothes; is showered/clean; matching;
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clean and ironed clothing;
matches and goes together; fresh breath/smells nice;
clean shaven and combed hair;
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Manners/Chivalry
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rude to you or others;
make you pay; don't walk to door; doesn't open doors;
too loud/obnoxious
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please and/or thank
you a few times; open door once; looked at phone a few
times; interrupted a few times; split the check;
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doesn't hold the door
open, but comes to door; good eye contact; good listening;
keeps phone away; makes you just leave tip;
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comes to the door to
pick you up; compliments the way you look; opens/holds
all doors; pulls your chair out at dinner; pays for
anything; chews with his mouth closed; knows not to
try anything on first date; ask you out again; brings
flowers;
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Fun Plans
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didn't have anything
planned; didn't make reservations; if plans were made,
they were inappropriate or boring;
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cheap budget; not aware
of the weather; thoughtful and somewhat creative, but
not too interesting; inappropriate for a first date;
more fun for a guy than a girl;
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makes an effort to
select an activity you both enjoy doing; seems to enjoy
activities you like doing;
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plans took a lot of
thought/creativity; unique location; something most
people don't do on a date; considered "dream date";
you smile and laugh the whole time;
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Comfort Level
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no eye contact; you
can tell they're not themselves; awkward body language;
awkward silences; not attentive to you;
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means well, but still
awkward; not trustworthy, yet; awkward good-bye; two
weren't in line with thoughts;
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keeps eye contact most
of the time; only stumbles over words a little bit;
minimal awkward silence; mild to little sweating; not
forcing conversation;
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avoided awkward silence;
good sense of humor; good listener; not always on the
phone; keeps eye contact, but not staring;
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